Dear Whoever Has Wondered Where eshy Stands On Relationships,                                                      11-19-11

     The title pretty much explains the post so here are most of MY rules on relationships I’m in, or have been, or possibly will be in. Let’s start this post with quotes as always on relationships:

~”If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy.” -Unknown

~”Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance  you have in trying to change others.” -Benjamin Franklin

~”Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you’re in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends,  who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have you… The one who turns to his friends and says, ‘that’s her’. “-Chuck Palahniuk

~”Find someone worth your tears, worth your laughter, worth your heart and loves you as much as you love them. ” -Unknown

~”There is no feeling more comforting than knowing you’re right next to the one you love.” -Kay Knudsen

4 Basic Things I Will Never Do For A Guy:

  1. cry. unless I’m married to him or something like that(or maybe a close guy friend but these are about my um, personal relationships in the “more than friends” zone). A boyfriend? Hell no. Sorry.
  2. get into a fight WITH A FRIEND over him.
  3. I will never ever say I’m wrong when I’m actually right just to fluff his ego.
  4. most importantly, break any of the standing moral agreements I have with myself(which includes more than the whole sex thing)

Some other random rules of my relationships:

  • I draw all lines and am not afraid to be a b*tch and actually enforce them.
  • If someone thinks it’s okay to ask out the other person through a text message, it is perfectly okay and fair for the other person to break up with that someone through a text message as well.
  • When you’re in a relationship with someone and you don’t talk to the other person at all, you’re not in a relationship.
  • Never believe anything that has been told to you or that someone has “heard, or even has the remote possibility of being gossip. Go for the source and figure it out yourself, third party groups don’t help they just complicate.


-More than half who marry in their teens are divorced in under 15 years.

-((Sorry looks like Google ran out of facts….who woulda thought…))

                                                                                                                                                               Inspired, eshy </3 & ❤